What kind of person do you want to be?
Discover the values that shape your identity and guide your life.
When you’re unsure which decision or action to take, pause and ask yourself:
🤔 What kind of person do I want to be?
This simple question cuts through confusion and helps you focus on what matters most to you. It draws your attention to your personal values, the qualities you want to live by, such as kindness, courage, integrity, or creativity. This focus anchors you in who you want to be. Big or small, every action and decision shapes the person you’re becoming. For example, you might choose a career that aligns with your values, decide how to spend your money, or prioritize honesty even when it’s difficult. The clearer you are about who you want to be, the more intentional your path becomes.
Knowing what kind of person you want to be provides a steady compass in a world full of distractions and conflicting demands. Without this clarity, it’s easy to lose yourself by reacting to external pressures or simply drifting along. But when you have a clear sense of your values and character, your decisions gain depth beyond momentary gains or avoiding discomfort, and instead focus on building a life that feels authentic and fulfilling. This clarity not only guides your choices but also fuels your motivation and resilience when challenges arise.
Your personal values are like the roots of a tree, giving you stability and nourishment that keep you grounded when storms hit or winds try to blow you off course.
There are many ways to clarify your personal values. For instance, consider the qualities you admire in others, or imagine what you would want people to say about your character at your funeral. These reflections often reveal what truly matters to you. Write down the values that resonate, then identify which ones feel most essential, those you want to guide your choices and actions. Your values can evolve as you grow and encounter new experiences. Revisiting and reflecting on them regularly helps keep your sense of who you want to be both relevant and active.
Your actions and decisions today are shaping your future self. This is why it helps to pause and ask:
🤔 What kind of person do I want to be?
