Why not feel good right now?
Feel good without depending on anything outside yourself.
When you catch yourself postponing happiness, ask:
🤔 Why not feel good right now?
We typically treat feeling good like something that only shows up when the right conditions are met. We tell ourselves we’ll be happy once we reach our next goal, whether it’s a promotion, a bigger paycheck, a purchase we want, finding a partner, or losing a few pounds. The pattern is everywhere. Once I get that promotion, I’ll feel proud. Once I stick to my routine, I’ll feel at peace. Once I finish this task, I’ll feel good about myself. Happiness always seems to sit on the far side of “once.”
The cost of tying happiness to conditions is high. We don’t feel good until we get what we want, which can take a long time. And when we finally do, we quickly adapt to the new situation so the satisfaction fades. We then start chasing the next goal to find happiness. This is the hedonic treadmill in action. This pattern keeps us running, always reaching for “once” and rarely stopping to enjoy the present moment.
The good news is happiness doesn’t have to wait for conditions to be met. It is entirely internal, and you can access it right now without relying on anything outside yourself, like a purchase, a promotion, or even a partner. Connect with the present moment by focusing on one or a few breaths. Allow each moment to be just as it is, without judging it as good or bad, or trying to change it. This does not mean you stop improving your life or yourself. Accepting reality as it is gives you the energy and clarity to move forward. It lets you enjoy the process while achieving your goals and growing.
Feeling good regardless of circumstances is like a deep lake, calm at its depths even when waves stir the surface.
Start noticing the present moment. Accept it as it is, and let yourself feel good while moving forward.
